It's our ATTITUDE!

When we're incomplete,

we're always searching for
somebody to complete us.
Then, after a few years or a few
months of a relationship,
we find that we're still unfulfilled,
we blame our partners and take
up with somebody more promising.
This can go on and on
- series polygamy
- until we admit that while a
partner can add sweet dimensions to our lives,
we, (each of us), are responsible for our own fulfillment.
Nobody else can provide it for us,
and to believe otherwise is
to delude ourselves dangerously
and to program for eventual failure in every relationship we enter into.
Whenever you're in conflict with someone,
there is one factor that can make the difference
between damaging your relationship and deepening it.
That factor is ATTITUDE.!
We choose how we see people. When we want to like someone, we can be so tolerant.
When we want to be irritated by people, we focus on their faults.
It's not other people's behavior that determines how we feel about them,


IT's OUR ATTITUDE!
INDEED, LOVE should be defined as “WHEN YOUR NEEDS ARE AS IMPORTANT AS MY NEEDS." This kind of love is more powerful than lust, attraction, common interests, animal instincts, social influence, and even self-esteem. When you are capable of this kind of love, you may find it with someone like you or unlike you in BIOLOGY OR PSYCHOLOGY. There are plenty of rules in CHEMISTRY, but there are no rules when it comes to LOVE.
Strive to be an EMOTIONALLY MATURE person, ready to give and accept LOVE. Challenge yourself to break out of your RELATIONSHIP PARADIGM. Get to know yourself first, and when you're SECURE with who you are and what you see in the mirror, you will be able to accept a people in the same way. A healthy lifestyle where you are happy with yourself affects your psyche and hormones, making you attractive to others. The more aware we are of that, the easier it should be to allow the “MAGIC” to happen naturally.


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