Everyone has some sort of fear in life. It may be brought about by any one or more of the following reasons:
- By our own negative mindset, (but are you going to let fear take over your life?)
- By the influence of other people,
- By a sad past incident,
But the fear of failure is the fear of failing yourself. You can never let yourself down but only can you keep pushing yourself up, up to higher levels of achievements. Never live your life to please others but live for self-satisfaction of self-made accomplishments. Don't fear the fear of failing, but rather fear not trying to have the opportunity to fail. Go ahead fail once, twice, trust soon you will get it right!
You must take the necessary steps to overcome your fear. It's all in the mind.
Do you want to be a doctor but you are afraid that your intellect can't handle the pressure or you are worried about financial insecurity? Do you envy other people when you see them enjoying wild rides, and you are just stuck in a corner because you are too terrified to give it a try?
On a quest to start a new life, you will face a lot of challenges and uphill battles that will try to bring you down. Fears will arise that will make you stumble and the only way to stop them is to face them! As a friend, I would like you to know that life will knock us down but we can choose to get back up. Always remember to be strong. Root that in your heart. My suggestion is to face your fear head-on. If you are really determined to achieve your deepest desires and aspirations, a powerful force will enable you to reach them amidst every obstacle that comes in the way. Someone or something will always be there to help you attain your goals. Just have faith in your abilities. Your WILL POWER has the utmost capacity to accomplish anything with the proper mindset.
You could also use VISUALIZATION METHOD to help you in overpowering any kind of fear. Are you afraid of heights? Then imagine yourself being on top of a mountain, overseeing the magnificent sights. Enjoy and feel the moment. Take away all worries and anxieties. Inhabit your own soul and your own destiny. Where your fears lie and there is no retreat where you should be in your moments of greatness. You will find yourself, your true being on that edge, the edge of the abyss and when you jump in you will find that you will either fly or fall into a pool of ecstasy. Either of these outcomes is an infinitely superior way to live or to die for that matter.
This applies to whatever thing that triggers your fear factor. Just imagine being able to defeat it, then confront it with the definite belief that you have the will power and capacity to do everything you want if you just put your mind to it.
Control your fear before it controls you. It implies that with the proper mindset, determination, and will power, you can conquer your fear!
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