SEX is not just a physical act to relive sexual tension. Having sex can cause very strong EMOTIONS. Sometimes a teenager (or even some adults) may only realize this after having sex.
It is for this reason that people (especially teenagers) should carefully think about the consequences of having sex well before they actually do it. Sexual intercourse is the most INTIMATE thing that two people can do.
When having sex, it is said that two bodies become one. Sex can cause strong feelings for both people; and females will most likely feel this strongest. A female teen should carefully think about the possibility of having sex, because once she does, it cannot be ERASED. If her partner is not MATURE enough to handle the emotions that will occur, she may find she will dearly regret her decision. Sex can lead a person to feel that they are in love, or it can make the feelings of love stronger; a person should be sure a relationship is lasting before having sex.
A person (especially girls) should be sure that they can handle the emotions of sex and the responsibilities of sex before they have intercourse. Sex can be a wonderful thing; but there is no rush. Sex always has SOME consequences-when Adolf Hitler's mother spread her legs that night, she effectively canceled out the spreading of fifteen to twenty million other pairs of legs! One thing I've learned over the years is there's probably nothing worse you can do to yourself than to make love when you really don't feel it. We should always bear in mind that there’s no CONDOM for the BRAIN or the HEART. So when you have SEX (especially before marriage) you’re playing with fire that will most certainly BURN you at some point in your life… especially in your marriage relationship
It is for this reason that people (especially teenagers) should carefully think about the consequences of having sex well before they actually do it. Sexual intercourse is the most INTIMATE thing that two people can do.
When having sex, it is said that two bodies become one. Sex can cause strong feelings for both people; and females will most likely feel this strongest. A female teen should carefully think about the possibility of having sex, because once she does, it cannot be ERASED. If her partner is not MATURE enough to handle the emotions that will occur, she may find she will dearly regret her decision. Sex can lead a person to feel that they are in love, or it can make the feelings of love stronger; a person should be sure a relationship is lasting before having sex.
A person (especially girls) should be sure that they can handle the emotions of sex and the responsibilities of sex before they have intercourse. Sex can be a wonderful thing; but there is no rush. Sex always has SOME consequences-when Adolf Hitler's mother spread her legs that night, she effectively canceled out the spreading of fifteen to twenty million other pairs of legs! One thing I've learned over the years is there's probably nothing worse you can do to yourself than to make love when you really don't feel it. We should always bear in mind that there’s no CONDOM for the BRAIN or the HEART. So when you have SEX (especially before marriage) you’re playing with fire that will most certainly BURN you at some point in your life… especially in your marriage relationship
We should refuse to take, exploit, cheapen, defraud, or substitute sexual activity for genuine LOVE and authentic intimacy. In order to understand this paradigm, we’ve got to remember that SEX is not exactly wrong and God is no PRUDE. Am saying sex is not necessarily a SIN to be avoided but a GIFT to be cherished. All of us want GENUINE intimacy. We want to have RELATIONSHIPS that matter. We long for someone to feel deeply loved because of us. We also want to be LOVED and CHERISHED and cared for by someone else. [In Ephesians 5:3-4, the Apostle] Paul says certain things will squelch and destroy love and break relationships. These are crucial warnings. If we are going to truly love somebody, then we should not take, exploit, or cheapen him or her. We should not engage in sexual activity to create PSEUDO-INTIMACY that’s false because we don’t really care and we’re not really COMMITTED. We should not substitute sex for authentic intimacy!
It is said that TESTOSTERONE (one of the hormones responsible for sex drive) is 20-40 per cent more prevalent in men than women. That’s why I liken men to an ELECTRIC LIGHT BULB — you flip a switch and on he goes. But all of us (especially men) need to learn to be LOVERS if we are to satisfy the needs of our (future) partners/wives!
And to the ladies, unless he puts a ring on it, or unless you are very SURE of him, please try as much as possible to give him absolutely no reason to presume you “belong” to him.
damn!!!! this so inspiring...thanx Gilly
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